50 States of Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties

Unique experiences across the country for the last fling before the ring.

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A Guide for Pre-Wedding Fun

Bachelor and bachelorette parties have the reputation of being, well, a little naughty. But times are shifting. Instead brides and grooms-to-be are embracing the event as a chance to do something unique with their closest comrades. Here are so many ways to celebrate across the country.

ALABAMA: Flora-Bama Bar

What screams bachelor or bachelorette party more than a bar right on the beach? This legendary bar sits on the gulf shores where Florida and Alabama meet. Grab some grub at the oyster bar before dancing the night away to live music on the beach. During the day, rent jet skis or charter a deep-sea fishing boat for fun on the water.

ALASKA: Salmon Fishing and Sightseeing

If you are going to make it all the way out to Alaska, you may as well go salmon fishing AND see the sights. This tour company does both. They’ll take you out in Kenai Fjords National Park to see wildlife and glaciers. Snap plenty of photos and then it’s on to fishing where, depending on the season, you may catch salmon, rockfish or pacific cod.

ARIZONA: Men’s Getaway at The Biltmore

Arizona is a great place for any bachelor or bachelorette party because of its amazing spas, tons of hiking and mild weather. This Scottsdale hotel pulls out all the spots for a bachelor party with their men’s getaway package that includes two hours of golf, a bourbon and cigar experience, a chef’s tasting menu plus wine pairings and even men’s facials or massages in the spa.

ARKANSAS: Hot Springs

There’s a reason that Hot Springs, Arkansas has become known as spa city. There are tons of bathhouses and spas that draw forth the amazing natural hot springs found in the middle of the town. Go on a hike in the national park, go shopping around town and end your day in a relaxing spa setting at a place like Quapaw Baths, which has thermal pools and natural steam caves.

CALIFORNIA: Go Kayaking in La Jolla

You could spend a California bachelorette party shopping your way through rodeo drive, drinking in Napa, or eating through San Fran, but why not head to La Jolla where you can take a kayaking tour that will put you up close with the whales. Paddle through the waters of the artic into the lagoons of Mexico before you rest for a possibly whale sighting. Afterward, hit the beach and head for some fish tacos–you are in La Jolla after all.

COLORADO: Cloud Camp at The Broadmoor

Wilderness meets luxury at this cabin located 3,000 feet above The Broadmoor Resort, deep in the Cheyenne mountains. The 360 views are unparalleled and the schedule for the day is filled with activities from yoga and hikes to archery. Nighttime is spent around the fire with S’mores or a drink in hand. Getting to the mountain is one of the most fun parts. Travel in style in an Escalade, ride a mule or hike your way to the top.

CONNECTICUT: Spa Day at the Mayflower Inn & Spa

A day of pure spa indulgence can be the perfect bachelor or bachelorette party, and this Connecticut spot has so many different wellness opportunities. From massage to sound healing, facials, manicures, plus yoga classes, ai chi and Pilates, there is no stone left unturned for relaxation before the big day. Take a wine class, play tennis, do a bourbon and apple pie tasting, and take in the chill at this Inn.


Rehoboth beach has a ton to offer for a bachelorette weekend. It’ll be hard to choose what to do, so why not do it all? This tour company helps to curate the ultimate weekend that starts with either a craft beer or wine and garden tour, then follows with private kayaking, paddle boarding or yoga lessons, a barre and Bellini class, or something more artistic like sign painting. There are plenty of added mementos, photos and snacks along the way. It’ll be nice to have a blast with little to minimal planning and set transportation!

FLORIDA: Asian Night Bazaar at Setai

Dinner and a show take on new meaning here where this pan-Asian restaurant turns into a true experience every Friday night. Contortionists, fire breathers, geishas and aerial acrobats perform around the dining room to the beats of the resident DJ. All while you enjoy spice-forward bites and craft cocktails.

GEORGIA: A Wine and Food Tour Through Georgia’s Wine Country

For the bachelors and bachelorettes who love wine and food, this tour takes you on a wine and culinary adventure starting with a tasting and followed by a behind-the-scenes tour of a winery. Next, their sommelier will guide you through a wine and food experience before you finish the evening with a four-course dinner, plus wine pairings at a top restaurant.

HAWAII: Surfing and a day of water sports in Maui

We can think of few things that sound more awesome than spending the day on the beaches of Hawaii. This surf school offers a perfect, customizable way to celebrate the bride or groom-to-be. You can do two-hours of surfing (complete with lessons and professional photography), followed by lunch that is catered by the beachside Pacific’o restaurant. After, excursioners can play on the beach, with attractions like volleyball, snorkeling or just chilling in the sun.

IDAHO: Ski and see the stars at Hotel Ketchum

Sun Valley is the place to ski and Hotel Ketchum puts you right in on the action. Those who are super adventurous can set up a backcountry ski excursion. Later, you can spend nights under the stars at Dark Skies, a place where the night sky is as clear as day and shooting stars are the norm.

ILLINOIS: See Teatro ZinZanni

This three-hour experience involves a feast from a well-known chef, comedy, theatrics, acrobatics and so much more. Watch the modern circus while you eat and sip on specialty cocktails. This is truly a one-of-a-kind show and large groups are welcome. Get started early with a glass of champagne at the lounge before the show begins.

INDIANA: Make Candles at Penn and Beech

There’s nothing quite like a beautifully scented candle, so wouldn’t it be fun to make your own? You can do just that in Indianapolis where candle making becomes an artistic venture with your best girlfriends. Pick from over 100 scents for your creation. While your candle is setting, enjoy a glass of beer or wine.

IOWA: Visit the Field of Dreams Movie Set

Iowa is full of corn fields, but there is one in particular that makes a great visit for a bachelor parties full of movie buffs–the Field of Dreams. You can stay on property or take a guided tour of the field. They’ll even rent the field out to groups at night and help them plan the party “of their dreams.” There are plenty of souvenirs to be had and special events like the Team of Dreams, which brings baseball legends to play on the monumental field.

KANSAS: Catch a Royals Game

Speaking of ball, there is something fun about having a few beers while watching a game. Hang out in the Craft and Draft where you can get pub food and over 75 beers on tap right in the stadium.

KENTUCKY: Hit up the Bourbon Trail

When in Kentucky, bourbon is a must. Set out on the trail and make sure to hit up Bardstown Bourbon Company. Take a tour, learn how bourbon is made and take a few sips straight from the barrel. You can even spend some time learning from one of the master distillers.

LOUISIANA: Party it Up in New Orleans

Hosting a bachelor or a bachelorette party in New Orleans is a no brainer. Beignets at Café Du Monde, late nights on Bourbon street and plenty of delicious cajun food. Any good bach party must stop at the Carousel Bar and Lounge, which recently celebrated its 70thanniversary. The bar rotates every 15 minutes, but that doesn’t mean it’s full of kitsch–the cocktails here are top-notch and this iconic spot remains a must-visit.

MAINE: Go Sailing in Portland

Don’t worry if you don’t know how to sail, someone will do the hard work for you! Just kick back and relax while soaking in the amazing views of Casco bay. There are a few different options, from a sunset rose sail with fresh oysters to a trip geared more towards local craft beer. Enjoy it all!

MARYLAND: Create a Masterpiece in Baltimore

For the artistic bachelor or bachelorette, a class at the Painting Workshop is a great chance for everyone to flex their painting muscles. Have a few drinks and catch up while you are guided through creating a canvas painting at this Baltimore institution.

MASSACHUSETTS: Cashunt Scavenger Hunt

What’s more fun than a giant scavenger hunt? This company has games down pat with a fun and funny dash around Boston where participants solve clues, take photos and laugh along.

MICHIGAN: Drag Queen Bingo

Bingo, but with a twist! In this game, winning Bingo will get you called on stage to win a prize picked by one of the featured drag queens, who may roast in front of the entire audience throughout the process. Enjoy the fun while sipping boozy milkshakes and indulging in fried finger foods.

MINNESOTA: Play Around in the Extreme Sandbox

Who says sandboxes are just for kids? This one is a little different. It offers bachelor parties the opportunity to use excavators and tractors in a ginormous sandbox. They’ll even give the bachelor a chance to smash a car. Finish off the evening by letting the extreme fire truck drive you around town to all of the bars for a celebration in style–sirens and all!

MISSISSIPPI: Hit the Blackjack Table in Biloxi

You can still get your “Vegas” fix in the heart of the south. Biloxi, Mississippi has its own massive casino at the Beau Rivage hotel where you can spend the night pressing your luck. You can also relax by the pool, hit the golf course, chill out in the spa, catch a live show or sip on a cocktail.


Throw some drinks in the cooler and hop on the bus for a tour through the ultimate BBQ town. Sample your way through all sorts of barbeque goodies and learn a bit about each spot in the process. You’ll go to well-known locations and hidden gems for a very filling afternoon.

MONTANA: Hit the Slopes in Big Sky

Make your way to Lone Mountain Ranch, the perfect place to experience the best of Montana. From eating local elk to taking a sleigh ride, parties are sure to love every minute. Ski downhill in the winter or whitewater raft in warmer weather before finishing your day with an amazing massage. Then, retire to your luxury cabin for the night.

NEBRASKA: Escape at House of Conundrum

Escape rooms are all the rage these days and this one is full of differently themed rooms with challenging puzzles to solve. Whether you choose a difficult Sherlock room or one that is 20,000 leaks under the sea–your crew will have a fabulous time together.

NEVADA: On the Record Nightclub at Park MGM

There is no doubt that Las Vegas is the place to be when it comes to bachelor or bachelorette parties. There is gambling, spas and plenty of nighttime entertainment. On the Record is a great night spot to get your sing and dance on. Enter through a record store to a speakeasy club with hidden Karaoke rooms to rock out at with your friends. Outdoors spaces and craft cocktails round out this unique spot.

NEW HAMPSHIRE: Go Whitewater Rafting

Hit the rapids with your nearest and dearest. This whitewater rafting trip is sure to be a thrilling adventure. They’ll work with you to customize a party, including add-ons like a picnic lunch or rolling dog sled adventure.

NEW JERSEY: Race at High Speeds

This isn’t your typical go-kart experience. These electric go-karts are designed to give more of an adrenaline rush than your average car. Once you’re done racing, hop into the arcade, bowling alley and private rooms for your party to eat, drink and toast to the upcoming nuptials.

NEW MEXICO: Achieve Zen with Hiking and Yoga

The active (and centered!) bride or groom-to-be will love taking advantage of the great New Mexico outdoors by combining hiking and yoga. Take a hike before breathing in nature with a one-hour yoga class.

NEW YORK: Brew Your Own Beer

There is so much to do in the city that never sleeps, from catching a Broadway show to exploring the culinary scene. If you are looking for something more niche, the Brooklyn brewery, Bitter and Esters, offers a class where you can brew your own beer. You’ll end up with 144 bottles of your custom bachelor or bachelorette brew. You can even have your own custom label–how cool is that?

NORTH CAROLINA: Have a Japanese Spa Retreat in Asheville

In a beautiful setting like the Blue Ridge mountains, it’s hard to not achieve zen, but this Japanese spa retreat will make sure of you do. This spot is filled with opportunities to relax together, like in their Private Outdoor Salt Hydrotherapy Tub that holds up to eight people. You can get massages, jade stone facials and relax together while enjoying champagne in one of the many lodges offered at Shoji.

NORTH DAKOTA: Hike or Bike Your Way Through the Badlands

For the bride or groom who wants to catch their breath and be one with nature before the big day, the Badlands are perfect for exploring. You can even hike, bike or horseback ride through Theodore Roosevelt Park.

OHIO: All Aboard the Brewboat in Cleveland

You’ve seen plenty of cycle-powered trolleys but what about a cycle-powered boat? On this Cleveland summer activity, you and your crew will power a boat by pedaling the catamaran along the Cuyahoga river. You bring your own music, brews and plenty of snacks, and you’ll create the perfect afternoon!

OKLAHOMA: Go Dragon Boating

River Sport in Oklahoma City is full adventures. You can structure your day with kayaking, ziplining, fast water slides, tubing and so much more. Try your hand at an up-and-coming sport: Dragon Boating. Your whole group can learn how to steer the big boat before jumping in and paddling through the water. Don’t worry, there will be someone on the boat to help you steer. It’s sure to be a great time for the whole crew!

OREGON: Bunk at the Atticus

What could be better than an afternoon of wine tasting followed by a giant slumber party with all of your girlfriends? In Oregon’s Willamette Valley, you can do just that. The Atticus Hotel is within a short drive to many wineries and sits in the heart of McMinnville–a cute town with plenty of character, great food and art to explore. You’ll rom in a luxury bunkhouse that is complete with bunk beds so you can gab all night long until falling asleep.

PENNSYLVANIA: Have a Chocolate Filled Day in Hershey Park

For chocolate lovers who are seeking a thrill, Hershey Park is a great destination. Not only are there thrilling rollercoasters, but you can also indulge in chocolate-tinged food at the newest restaurant within chocolate town. Grab ice cream and even head to the spa to get chocolate-themed treatments.

Puerto Rico: Serafina Beach Hotel Bachelor/Bachelorette package

In the hip Coronado district of Puerto Rico is this hotel with sweeping views of the beach and a great infinity edge pool. Upon arrival, the hotel offers welcome cocktails and plenty of other drinks and snacks throughout your stay. The real highlight is the Island concierge who can help book adventures like private helicopter tours, catamaran cruises and rainforest tours.

RHODE ISLAND: Live Like the Vanderbilts in Newport

The Vanderbilts lived in style, so why can’t you channel their aristocracy, if even just for the day? A stay at their namesake hotel, The Vanderbilt, offers a tour where you can ride around in a 1920s automobile with a private tour of the Vanderbilt mansion. Afterwards, go on a three-hour tour of Newport, followed by a picnic with food that resembles a 1920s Gilded Age menu.

SOUTH CAROLINA: Plan a Weekend in Hilton Head

There are so many good spots to find in South Carolina for bride or grooms who just want to unwind. The Omni in Hilton Head offers three pools with cabanas that look over the ocean. You can also obtain private beach access from the resort or rent a kayak and explore the lagoons. Golf, tennis and other outdoor games are the perfect way to round out the weekend.

SOUTH DAKOTA: Go Off-Road Jeep Riding in Custer State Park

Ride through the hills of Custer State Park and see the buffalo roam up close and personal in an off-road jeep. Follow the adventure with an old-time chuck wagon cookout, listen to live music and dance the night away in your cowboy hat and bandana.

TENNESSEE: Dance Your Way Through Downtown Nashville

When in Nashville, it’s only proper to hit up all of the country music bars along lower Broadway, but why not ride in style? The Honky Tonk Party Bus is an open-air bus with an LED dance floor, so you can get the dancing started before you make it to the bars. Create your own playlist and have the bartender on board mix up your drink of choice.

TEXAS: JL Bar, Resort Ranch and Spa

Deep in the heart of Texas, you can do just about anything you desire at this resort. Horseback riding, mountain biking, cooking classes, a spa, ATV adventures, a putting green and so much more. You can create the bachelor or bachelorette party of your dreams.

UTAH: Ski In and Out of High West Distillery

Park City is a fun place for a bachelor or bachelorette party, especially if you love hitting the slopes. Spend some time getting to know the town’s prized whiskey at High West Distillery. You can actually ski in and out of the saloon, and stop for a bite and a whiskey before going about your evening.

VERMONT: Snowshoe and Spa

Escape to Vermont for a weekend of relaxation. In the winter, many guests love snowshoeing or skiing. Spend the afternoon in the certified spa with beautiful organic products. If the weather allows, finish the day with wine and S’mores around the firepit.

VIRGINIA: Kayak to a Winery in Cape Charles

Lazy days in small coastal towns are the best for bachelorette parties where you can spend time strolling around homemade jewelry shops and stores. Make your main event a kayak ride to the family-owned Chatham Vineyards,where you can explore the fields that are known for their highly rated Chardonnay. Bring bottles back in your kayak to drink throughout the rest of your trip.

WASHINGTON: Take a Private Chef Tour of Pike Place Market

Seattle is a great town for food (and coffee). Take a tour of the famous Pike Place Market with a private chef guiding the way by showing you all the best places to get ice cream, seafood, coffee and more.

Washington, D.C.: Do a Truffle Making Class at the Chocolate House

Start off your day with a little hands-on experience. This D.C. Chocolatier lets you try your hand at chocolate truffle making. Get your group together and they’ll work with you to create a class that involves tasting, making and a whole lot of fun.

WEST VIRGINIA: Have an Adventure at the Historic Greenbrier

Think of this historic inn as the perfect playground for any type of bachelor or bachelorette. There really isn’t anything you can’t do here with activities beyond your wildest imagination. Golf at a well-known course, press your luck in the casino, hunt birds, play croquet, watch a glass blowing demonstration, climb through an outdoor adventure course or try your hand at jewelry making. Think of it as bachelor or bachelorette summer camp!

WISCONSIN: Kohler Waters Spa

Yes, the same Kohler that makes amazing showerheads and bathtubs has a spa in Wisconsin that will calm all of your senses. Not only is there an amazing spa on property (with amazing indulgent water treatments, of course), but there are also yoga and cycling classes, restaurants and shops, including their own amazing chocolatier. The properties Inn at Woodlake has four-bedroom suites that are perfect for keeping the crew altogether.

WYOMING: Explore and Spa in Jackson Hole

Ski in the winter, hike in the summer and enjoy the beauty of the Teton Mountains all year round. This cute little Western town has a lot of character and no shortage of stuff to do. Spend some time at the Teton Lodge, where the spa combines Indonesian and Thai-inspired treatments. There is a rooftop that can accommodate over 20 people, eucalyptus-infused steam rooms, salt stone massages and peppermint foot therapy.

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